MsLoganHenney
Active Member
am i reading this right that you had pepper longer than you had the relationship? if so, man, that makes this extra heartbreaking. i am so sorry. I appreciate you being open and sharing your grieving with us, your attitude and positivity about a tough situation are heartwarming.
You read that right, I had Pepper prior to the relationship. It was tough letting her go and overall it’s been a roller coaster of emotions through all this. I honestly don't know where I would be if I didn't have my support system of friends and loved ones and therapy. My therapist especially has been amazing and I’m glad I started going for myself, not just the relationship at the time, a few years ago. In the end, I just hope my ex takes good care of Pepper. She’s a great dog and I’ve trained her very well, so she doesn't deserve any neglect or hardship, especially in her old age.