Enoch
Well-Known Member
moving from genres, Are there any bands/artists you automatically buy on vinyl regardless? (Do you buy multiples copies - all the different variants?)
Right now I'll order anything the women of boygenius put out, but I won't like, track down the RSD 7"s or anything like that. In theory I'll pick up anything Erika Wennerstrom does--Heartless Bastards is one of my favorite bands--but I don't have their first album, and I haven't gotten around to picking up her solo album yet, though it's absolutely terrific.
I don't collect all the variants. If I end up with a second copy I'll pass one along.
So... kind of?
I try to avoid multiples unless two clubs do the same release or apparently FJM releases
There are a lot of artists I'll buy the next album of. I can't commit beyond that.
Heh--you can't get enough FJM vinyl?
I just happen to have two of each of his albums
Ah. Well, you know where to find the PIF thread...
just teasing
I really like him so I don't mind
I definitely PIF other multiples
Yeah, I ended up with 2 boygenius EPs. I would have kept both, but @mcherry mentioned not having it, and I just knew I had to send it to her. She's sent me so many duplicates over the years.
It's rare I get to return the favor
glad you could, since we are sort of on the topic
What is your favorite record in your collection?
I have a favorite child because there is only one. A favorite record is impossible.
I've been spinning the latest Julia Jacklin a lot. And Blossom Dearie and The Beths. Those are current favorites. I love my Anthology of American Folk Music. But yeah no, I don't have A Favorite.
any older albums (decade wise or collection wise) that get a lot of play
I spin The Limousines - Get Sharp a lot, which I picked up in 2010. Amanda Palmer - Who Killed Amanda Palmer was picked up early on. Exile on Main Street and Rubber Soul get played, which came from my parents' collection.
along those lines what record means the most to you? (if different from any you mentioned above)
And of course, tons of Christmas albums, haha
Probably the copy of Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band that I have from my parents' collection. I've been listening to it my entire life. The songs have been meaningful in different ways to me as I've aged. It's obviously a great album, but it's just been there for me all along.
is there a particular song on Sgt Pepper that sticks out more
She's Leaving Home
it's just a brilliant, devastating song
When I was little I was kind of horrified but fascinated by it. Why would a girl leave home?!
I probably identify with the girl in the song more as an adult than I did as a child. Or maybe I should say understand her. I was a very straight-and-narrow kind of goody two shoes kid.
so no thoughts of running away from home as a child
No way.
I was also very fearful
I mean, we'd play pretend that we were orphans roughing it and things like that, but I never felt a desire to be away from my family as a kid.
is there a song/album that means a lot to you and your kid
Honestly, she begs me to play the Bob's Burgers album all the time, because she wants to hear "Butts, Butts, Butts" and "The Diarrhea Song"
That's our main bonding vinyl wise at this point
but musically in general, we have a "Mommy and Baby Glitter Dance Party" playlist. we sing and dance to those songs--mostly pop songs and some tracks from movie soundtracks.
We love to sing "I Am Not A Robot" by Marina and the Diamonds together
and anything by Carly Rae Jepsen
sounds good, better than all her favorites being the "gross" songs
Right. I mean, she's 5. Gross songs are a right of passage. But she's also a pure little soul and just loves music.
She's a crack up. When I have to tell her no for something, or if she's in a little bit of trouble she'll throw herself on the couch and tell our Google home puck thing "Okay Google, play me sad songs!" and it will
that's too funny, what songs does it play for her
Apparently someone made a Spotify playlist called "Sad Songs"
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DX7qK8ma5wgG1
Right now the first song on the list is by an artist who shares my daughter's first name, and actually resembles her, and I find that too funny.
at least it doesn't also include Dirty Lovers songs too (yes @benmal I went there)
Because parents are amused and delighted by everything related to our precious angels when they're being adorable.
haha
She's usually over it within 1-2 songs, she just likes to demonstrate for all of us how Very Sad she is
But also she sincerely loves music
before getting into my typical closing questions, I wanted to ask about your forum name, is there a story behind it?
It was a blog idea I had--to write about raising a daughter. I find it kind of evocative of what being a girl is all about. The blog never happened, but I like the handle
what were your dreams for the blog
I don't know about dreams, but I wanted to talk about the challenges of bringing up a girl in a patriarchal world, and also just parenting with a mind towards the fact that we're raising people--future adults--and how our choices, disciplinary techniques, etc. should always be geared towards our goals for our relationship with them and the types of people we want to empower them to be.
Which is super hard sometimes when you just want them to DO WHAT YOU SAY
AND PUT ON THEIR SHOES
AND OMG STOP WHINING
I have a funny story about putting on shoes
I worked at a summer camp, it was the last day and the youngest kid didn't want to put on his shoes to go to breakfast
I told him he had because if her didn't go to breakfast he couldn't come back to the cabin for his mom to pick him up
(Why do they hate shoes so much?!)
ENOCH
MEAN
circle logic at its best
circular
Did it work?
it sure did
poor dumb kid
funny thing is he ate more than all the other kids at breakfast
of course. It's not that he wasn't hungry. Shoes are just child repellent
but he said he wasn't hungry and just wanted to go home
but yes shoes were a problem
kids, man
poor little guy
related in a loss sense to your blog, many people have applauded/appreciated your posts on the forum and in several instances stated you said what they were trying to say but in a more succinct way
do you feel pressure when posting because of that
Which is kind of funny given how long-winded I am
oh no, not at all
I like to be appreciated, it's flattering. But I just like to communicate
I'm not thinking "oh, is everyone going to like this" when I post about a thing
I don't check the "likes" on my posts usually, though I won't say never, haha. Because I do like affirmation as much as the next person.
if you did check likes you would notice I am not included, not because I don't like your posts I just don't hit like on any post
We are opposites
I'm a mega-liker
not everyone cares about them, but some people do, so I like to give 'em a little love, just in case
I have noticed (both that you like and that others comment about getting them), do write for a living helping your posts sounds so wise
(I'm sorry--is there a word missing in that last sentence? I'm not sure what you're saying)
do you write... (I really like to leave out "you" when asking a question)
Oh, I'm currently unemployed. I guess I kind of did--I provided commission support for the worldwide salesforce of a major tech company for years, and we used a case system. Most communication was written. But not cool writing.
I always planned to be a writer, but I'm not imaginative enough for fiction, and I'm honestly pretty self-conscious about feeling like I don't have much important or interesting to say.
I majored in poetry writing, because I have always embraced poverty and depression, I guess.
As I eluded to earlier, I think many on the forum think you have a lot to say
Yeah, if I could write for a living with prompts...
You could star GritnGlitter's poetry thread
It's definitely a struggle I've had my whole life
start
maybe because I read so much, I feel like everything is old news or a retread or something
hahaha
probably not gonna do that
I did moderate the poetry threads in an old forum I was part of though. <laughcry.gif>
I have poetry on an old LiveJournal somewhere. Terrible.
Right now I'll order anything the women of boygenius put out, but I won't like, track down the RSD 7"s or anything like that. In theory I'll pick up anything Erika Wennerstrom does--Heartless Bastards is one of my favorite bands--but I don't have their first album, and I haven't gotten around to picking up her solo album yet, though it's absolutely terrific.
I don't collect all the variants. If I end up with a second copy I'll pass one along.
So... kind of?
I try to avoid multiples unless two clubs do the same release or apparently FJM releases
There are a lot of artists I'll buy the next album of. I can't commit beyond that.
Heh--you can't get enough FJM vinyl?
I just happen to have two of each of his albums
Ah. Well, you know where to find the PIF thread...
just teasing
I really like him so I don't mind
I definitely PIF other multiples
Yeah, I ended up with 2 boygenius EPs. I would have kept both, but @mcherry mentioned not having it, and I just knew I had to send it to her. She's sent me so many duplicates over the years.
It's rare I get to return the favor
glad you could, since we are sort of on the topic
What is your favorite record in your collection?
I have a favorite child because there is only one. A favorite record is impossible.
I've been spinning the latest Julia Jacklin a lot. And Blossom Dearie and The Beths. Those are current favorites. I love my Anthology of American Folk Music. But yeah no, I don't have A Favorite.
any older albums (decade wise or collection wise) that get a lot of play
I spin The Limousines - Get Sharp a lot, which I picked up in 2010. Amanda Palmer - Who Killed Amanda Palmer was picked up early on. Exile on Main Street and Rubber Soul get played, which came from my parents' collection.
along those lines what record means the most to you? (if different from any you mentioned above)
And of course, tons of Christmas albums, haha
Probably the copy of Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band that I have from my parents' collection. I've been listening to it my entire life. The songs have been meaningful in different ways to me as I've aged. It's obviously a great album, but it's just been there for me all along.
is there a particular song on Sgt Pepper that sticks out more
She's Leaving Home
it's just a brilliant, devastating song
When I was little I was kind of horrified but fascinated by it. Why would a girl leave home?!
I probably identify with the girl in the song more as an adult than I did as a child. Or maybe I should say understand her. I was a very straight-and-narrow kind of goody two shoes kid.
so no thoughts of running away from home as a child
No way.
I was also very fearful
I mean, we'd play pretend that we were orphans roughing it and things like that, but I never felt a desire to be away from my family as a kid.
is there a song/album that means a lot to you and your kid
Honestly, she begs me to play the Bob's Burgers album all the time, because she wants to hear "Butts, Butts, Butts" and "The Diarrhea Song"
That's our main bonding vinyl wise at this point
but musically in general, we have a "Mommy and Baby Glitter Dance Party" playlist. we sing and dance to those songs--mostly pop songs and some tracks from movie soundtracks.
We love to sing "I Am Not A Robot" by Marina and the Diamonds together
and anything by Carly Rae Jepsen
sounds good, better than all her favorites being the "gross" songs
Right. I mean, she's 5. Gross songs are a right of passage. But she's also a pure little soul and just loves music.
She's a crack up. When I have to tell her no for something, or if she's in a little bit of trouble she'll throw herself on the couch and tell our Google home puck thing "Okay Google, play me sad songs!" and it will
that's too funny, what songs does it play for her
Apparently someone made a Spotify playlist called "Sad Songs"
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DX7qK8ma5wgG1
Right now the first song on the list is by an artist who shares my daughter's first name, and actually resembles her, and I find that too funny.
at least it doesn't also include Dirty Lovers songs too (yes @benmal I went there)
Because parents are amused and delighted by everything related to our precious angels when they're being adorable.
haha
She's usually over it within 1-2 songs, she just likes to demonstrate for all of us how Very Sad she is
But also she sincerely loves music
before getting into my typical closing questions, I wanted to ask about your forum name, is there a story behind it?
It was a blog idea I had--to write about raising a daughter. I find it kind of evocative of what being a girl is all about. The blog never happened, but I like the handle
what were your dreams for the blog
I don't know about dreams, but I wanted to talk about the challenges of bringing up a girl in a patriarchal world, and also just parenting with a mind towards the fact that we're raising people--future adults--and how our choices, disciplinary techniques, etc. should always be geared towards our goals for our relationship with them and the types of people we want to empower them to be.
Which is super hard sometimes when you just want them to DO WHAT YOU SAY
AND PUT ON THEIR SHOES
AND OMG STOP WHINING
I have a funny story about putting on shoes
I worked at a summer camp, it was the last day and the youngest kid didn't want to put on his shoes to go to breakfast
I told him he had because if her didn't go to breakfast he couldn't come back to the cabin for his mom to pick him up
(Why do they hate shoes so much?!)
ENOCH
MEAN
circle logic at its best
circular
Did it work?
it sure did
poor dumb kid
funny thing is he ate more than all the other kids at breakfast
of course. It's not that he wasn't hungry. Shoes are just child repellent
but he said he wasn't hungry and just wanted to go home
but yes shoes were a problem
kids, man
poor little guy
related in a loss sense to your blog, many people have applauded/appreciated your posts on the forum and in several instances stated you said what they were trying to say but in a more succinct way
do you feel pressure when posting because of that
Which is kind of funny given how long-winded I am
oh no, not at all
I like to be appreciated, it's flattering. But I just like to communicate
I'm not thinking "oh, is everyone going to like this" when I post about a thing
I don't check the "likes" on my posts usually, though I won't say never, haha. Because I do like affirmation as much as the next person.
if you did check likes you would notice I am not included, not because I don't like your posts I just don't hit like on any post
We are opposites
I'm a mega-liker
not everyone cares about them, but some people do, so I like to give 'em a little love, just in case
I have noticed (both that you like and that others comment about getting them), do write for a living helping your posts sounds so wise
(I'm sorry--is there a word missing in that last sentence? I'm not sure what you're saying)
do you write... (I really like to leave out "you" when asking a question)
Oh, I'm currently unemployed. I guess I kind of did--I provided commission support for the worldwide salesforce of a major tech company for years, and we used a case system. Most communication was written. But not cool writing.
I always planned to be a writer, but I'm not imaginative enough for fiction, and I'm honestly pretty self-conscious about feeling like I don't have much important or interesting to say.
I majored in poetry writing, because I have always embraced poverty and depression, I guess.
As I eluded to earlier, I think many on the forum think you have a lot to say
Yeah, if I could write for a living with prompts...
You could star GritnGlitter's poetry thread
It's definitely a struggle I've had my whole life
start
maybe because I read so much, I feel like everything is old news or a retread or something
hahaha
probably not gonna do that
I did moderate the poetry threads in an old forum I was part of though. <laughcry.gif>
I have poetry on an old LiveJournal somewhere. Terrible.
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