well i have no hifi shops nearby and im not spending 300 bucks to figure out which of the 2 i want
No matter. Many shops don’t allow demoing cartridges anyway.
When I was in the business, things happened:
The sales guy would “throw in” a “free” cartridge with the purchase of a cartridge when the turntable was sold at list price.
Or a turntable was sold at a great price- sometimes half, when purchased with a “selected” cartridge at list. Selected meant the one we selected for you.
You are far better off listening to those who choose to help you for free. But you have to listen.