MikeH
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just saw this. first of all congrats! buying a house is exciting. and stressful. and all the other emotions. we bought a house last april and it was a roller coaster. our apartment landlords were very nice and let us break the lease early when we told them the situation. we told them we were moving as soon as we had our accepted offer and signed a contract. we did give them 2 months notice though and ended up moving a few days before we had to move out of the apartment. the timing was getting a little hairy for us though haha.This is the year. I'm planning on buying a house this year. My current lease is up on June 1. I know that buying a house is a process and there's no way that the timeline will be perfect where I can move out and move in on the exact date. Also, my landlord always asks if we want to renew the lease by March 30th every year. So, ideally I have found something by March 30th. They're actually good landlords as far as landlords go (I know) and hope that if we cannot find something that they'd let us go month-to-month or we just break the lease early. I know for a fact they can get an extra $150/month if they got a new tenant instead of us with what the going rate for our place is.
My friend recommended a realtor they worked with two years ago when they bought a house. Is it too early to reach out to them and ask if they would be our realtor/willing to help? I am not approved for a mortgage loan yet because I know that approval only lasts a limited time, so I'd get approved prior to seriously looking at houses. How did the process go for your home buying experience? Is there anything else important to know for someone who's never done this before?
i don't think it's ever too late to start talking to a realtor. when we started seriously looking, we had a mortgage prequalification, but not preapproval. most places were asking for preapproval to even show houses because the market was really competitive. we were able to get preapproval fairly quickly because my wife works for a bank and they already had all of her paperwork on file, but i'd definitely start looking into that and getting all the paperwork together. you'll want that all done to move quickly once you see a house you like. you'll probably get a 60-90 day commitment letter. we ended up closing 1 week past when our mortgage commitment letter was expiring, but the bank kindly extended the rate by a week to accomodate us because they knew everything was taking long to get done.
my wife and i sat down and made a huge list of what was important for us in a house, what we wanted but could live without and what was an absolute deal-breaker. this was really helpful for us and luckily we were aligned on a lot. those things may change as you see more houses but i think it helped us make quick decisions when we saw the house we liked. we also spent nearly 8 months getting familiar with towns and what was available for what kinds of prices near us.
as @Corycm said, stuff is taking a LONG time now to get done. we had to get a survey done and that took 3 weeks. getting all of your paperwork to send to the bank takes a bit and it takes time to get the commitment letter. real estate lawyers were busy, title companies are backed up, etc. i believe we found our house at the end of january and had an accepted offer early feb. we didn't close until mid april.
make sure you find a good broker and a real estate lawyer that is communicative. sounds like you have a recommendation for broker already which is great. we went with a family friend as our lawyer and i think it was probably a mistake. if your broker has a lawyer they recommend, it may be worth going with that lawyer because they already have a working relationship with each other and probably get shit done quicker and work well together.
don't be heartbroken if you love a house and it doesn't work out for one reason or another.
lastly, make sure you have some kind of rainy day fund. something unexpected ALWAYS comes up that you have to fix once you buy your house.
feel free to PM me if you have any questions!