My husband feels pretty much the same as you. I still want to see them live, we have St. Paul & Indy tickets, but won't be able to make three trips to the midwest as there is no way I'm skipping The National's Homecoming in Cincy which is also in Sept.
But, I will say, we were chilling in the back yard over the weekend and put on a PJ boot, and he still does love them, he just hates their greed. I want to see them in Indy (Noblesville) since it's a one off and every other city gets two nights. It is so frustrating to see a fave band that once stood up to the man actually become the man.