I personally have both in my family. Much like your father who has delusions of MAGA dancing in his head, I have a few family members in Alabama and Northwest Florida that have been pumping out Facebook bs since 2021. The hurricanes that rocked us here in FL back 2 back were man made to swing FL blue because according to them, the red vote in Florida, a battleground state, would be wiped out by the man made storms
I have a FAR FAR left relative, who worked for the Obama campaign, was apart of the Northam controversy in Virginia as she was working in his office, and even had a governor or senator make improper passes which drove her away from politics at the tail end of 2019 to teach Yoga classes.... (in hindsight it was a good time to take a break). She is on IG now as the election comes closer bashing her mother, father, and others who she believes are voting for Trump. She says things like "My mother has made a devastating political decision with her vote, she is voting for a man that wants to kill me, her daughter" She says this as a white 34 year old former politician who lives on Miami beach and teaches Yoga.
I see both sides and to be honest I only explained this to give a personal bit on why I said what I said about side vs. side. I can see it here too even tho majority here is left leaning, when someone speaks against the norm here they get a gang of users to shoot down their thoughts. However, quite frankly your post is only adding to what I was saying about people pointing fingers while we head to a boiling point i.e. the last line of your post.