That's the one where Carm sees a therapist, right? Such a great episode; he actually uses the word "mafia" and is the first person to call out how comfortable with and complicit she is in Tony's business. I push against the shrill/nagging mainly for her cultural place in the trinity of Nagging Wives of Tv's Golden Age, along with Skyler White and Betty Draper, both of whom get a really bad rap. In reality that is her character though: she specifically goes after Tony anytime he tracks his messes into the house, but isn't concerned with anything he keeps out of her eyeline.I'm doing a rewatch of The Sopranos.
I was watching S03E07 in which Meadow's college dean takes Carmela to lunch to fundraise money. When Carmela tells Tony that they want $50K he says something along the lines of "those jew pricks are holding her hostage". Carmela corrects Tony that the dean is Italian and he responds "jews with better food".
As an Ashkenazi Jew, I am in 100% agreement that our food is trash (I won't throw the other two major divisions of the diaspora - Mizrahis and Sephardic - under the bus 'cause they have some lit food). I will say that we have a few killer dishes (there is a reason matzo ball soup litters diner menus in the northeast), but overall our food is bland and boring.
Anyway, it's been a long time since I'd watched Sopranos (and this is my first full rewatch besides seeing single episodes here and there throughout the years). I will say my lens of Carmela is different this time around. I think I was more sympathetic to her my first watching and all the B.S. she has to put up with from Tony (which she does, no doubt) and just how volatile and inept he is in his relationships. However, I am more critical of her this time. I think I am more tuned into her tacit complicity by enjoying the lifestyle and.....well, I don't know the right words....
If Tony wasn't Tony I would say "shrill" or "nagging" but I also don't sit easy using either of those descriptors. One, I think they are loaded with some misogyny and, two, it would be odd to say that she was nagging him about how many affairs he has, etc. But somewhere adjacent to those description that takes into account both her own flaws but also that she deals with an infinitely more flawed husband.
Just started watching High town season three
I’m yet to start season 2 but enjoyed season 1 - and yes it is slow but worth keeping withI’ve been watching the first season of Invasion this week. I honestly can’t decide what to make of it. It has two modes: slow, and EXCRUCIATINGLY slow. Once I decided that’s what I was in the mood for, it was fine, but it took a while to settle into the tone. This is a show that rewards watching 2-3 eps in a sitting. Watching week to week would lose me pretty quickly I think.
Anyone else keeping up with the show?
Completely agree regarding Night Country being burdened with the True Detective name. It was my understanding that Lopez had written at least some of the show prior to HBO suggesting it be pulled into TD franchise and then they Retconned a bunch of stuff so it would could sit nicely under the title. The issue with the franchise really goes back to disappointment with season two; which for better or worse was fairly disconnected from season 1. So with season 3 they sprinkled some of the season 1 mythology into the mix. If True Detective had kept things truly as an anthology series with no connection season to season outside of movie stars solving crimes. It might have worked but at this point the interrelated pieces that carry over really hinders the show by giving the audience unreasonable expectations.True Det 4 Spoiler
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I was pretty disappointed as well. Not that the ladies were behind it all but more that all the extra stuff they threw in like the hallucinations, the whole Pryor killing his dad, the Rose plotline, the tongue on the floor, the guy having weird seizures before the attack, was Annie a ghost who attacked them, she's awake. A lot of stuff just seemed thrown in that ultimately didn't have much to do with solving Annie's murder. It just was a bit of a mess that I was ready for it to be over. The worst thing HBO did was put True Detective in the title. If it was just called The Night Country, it wouldn't have the burden of all that came before it.