Vinyl Me Please (store, exclusives, swaps, etc)

hi what did i miss?
Shit even I’m not dumb enough to wade into here.


This is excellent advice.
Vinyl Me Please (store, exclusives, swaps, shit-storms, etc)
Guys. I hope you all see that this is escalating behavior and isn't helpful. It isn't a shit storm. It isn't drama. It isn't a dumpster fire. It's a discussion. Let people work it out without diminishing it. Please.

I hope that didn't come across as jerky, I'm not trying to be. I'm sincerely asking that we try to do things that didn't work in the old place a bit differently here. We have this clean slate. Let's make the most of it!!!!
 
@Enoch since I think you were the one asking (and for anybody else interested), got my replacement Stars copy and the same exact issue is in the same exact place (this time even worse). If I look closely enough, there seems to be a scratch in nearly the same place on both copies causing it to pop, so I'm guessing that it's a pressing issue sadly. I have asked for a refund.

that is my fear with my replacement
Please leave this space for discussion of the VMP store
I thought that was exactly what we weren't gonna do. Tell people what they could talk about where. Because if we're gonna start telling people to only discuss the store in here, I better see some mods/admins doing that not only in this thread but in every.single.thread on this forum.
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@Teeeee , @gouis was referencing "Personal" issues, not VMP related discussion, pro or con.
I am really sorry but this is a super mixed message, thanks @Teeeee for also saying this, so I can only post about VMP in a VMP thread but this thread is only for store stuff (in the old forum I would have created a new thread but I am also team we don't need more VMP threads). This is 100% why the last time this happened and asked for clarification and now you are giving a completely different answer. If this is how it is going to be then delete all VMP threads and be done with it. Had this been about any other company I 100% believe more would have done by staff. I want to be a part of this company but if you aren't going to give me a clear response on how to handle giving info on VMP then I am not sure I want to be a part of this place with a bias staff. And yes I am posting this response here as I believe everyone should have a clear response. Taking this to a DM is exactly what I have been accused of in meeting with VMP. This has gone on for too long. There needs to be a definite statement on what will be accepted and won't be concerning VMP and behavior toward people who want to say saying that is "I hate VMP." I have both this time and last time received DMs of people who have thanked me for sharing but who don't want to get caught up in the negative posts. Do something. These responses are insensitive. You can not like VMP but if you are going to be biased and allow more things to happen to people on this subject than others, make up your mind. I realize this emotional and rambling but I think that is what is needed right now. I have been accused of being a fan, being on the payroll, being a shill for VMP. Nothing has been done about this.
 
that is my fear with my replacement




I am really sorry but this is a super mixed message, thanks @Teeeee for also saying this, so I can only post about VMP in a VMP thread but this thread is only for store stuff (in the old forum I would have created a new thread but I am also team we don't need more VMP threads). This is 100% why the last time this happened and asked for clarification and now you are giving a completely different answer. If this is how it is going to be then delete all VMP threads and be done with it. Had this been about any other company I 100% believe more would have done by staff. I want to be a part of this company but if you aren't going to give me a clear response on how to handle giving info on VMP then I am not sure I want to be a part of this place with a bias staff. And yes I am posting this response here as I believe everyone should have a clear response. Taking this to a DM is exactly what I have been accused of in meeting with VMP. This has gone on for too long. There needs to be a definite statement on what will be accepted and won't be concerning VMP and behavior toward people who want to say saying that is "I hate VMP." I have both this time and last time received DMs of people who have thanked me for sharing but who don't want to get caught up in the negative posts. Do something. These responses are insensitive. You can not like VMP but if you are going to be biased and allow more things to happen to people on this subject than others, make up your mind. I realize this emotional and rambling but I think that is what is needed right now. I have been accused of being a fan, being on the payroll, being a shill for VMP. Nothing has been done about this.
Oh man, I didn't even think of your last plea for guidance when I was responding today. I'm so sorry this is causing you so much stress, confusion and anxiety. :(

I'm also sorry to hear that people don't feel comfortable making comments in the public threads and only will DM you. That's not what we should be about. We should welcome all opinions. It's why I really don't like the dumpster fire escalations, I feel like it makes people even more uncomfortable about posting. I'm going to keep this in mind more going forward.
 
I am really sorry but this is a super mixed message, thanks @Teeeee for also saying this, so I can only post about VMP in a VMP thread but this thread is only for store stuff (in the old forum I would have created a new thread but I am also team we don't need more VMP threads). This is 100% why the last time this happened and asked for clarification and now you are giving a completely different answer. If this is how it is going to be then delete all VMP threads and be done with it. Had this been about any other company I 100% believe more would have done by staff. I want to be a part of this company but if you aren't going to give me a clear response on how to handle giving info on VMP then I am not sure I want to be a part of this place with a bias staff. And yes I am posting this response here as I believe everyone should have a clear response. Taking this to a DM is exactly what I have been accused of in meeting with VMP. This has gone on for too long. There needs to be a definite statement on what will be accepted and won't be concerning VMP and behavior toward people who want to say saying that is "I hate VMP." I have both this time and last time received DMs of people who have thanked me for sharing but who don't want to get caught up in the negative posts. Do something. These responses are insensitive. You can not like VMP but if you are going to be biased and allow more things to happen to people on this subject than others, make up your mind. I realize this emotional and rambling but I think that is what is needed right now. I have been accused of being a fan, being on the payroll, being a shill for VMP. Nothing has been done about this.
hug

thanks for saying this, this felt needed from all the anxiety we seem to have had lately
 
Oh man, I didn't even think of your last plea for guidance when I was responding today. I'm so sorry this is causing you so much stress, confusion and anxiety. :(

I'm also sorry to hear that people don't feel comfortable making comments in the public threads and only will DM you. That's not what we should be about. We should welcome all opinions. It's why I really don't like the dumpster fire escalations, I feel like it makes people even more uncomfortable about posting. I'm going to keep this in mind more going forward.
I haven't been upset with anything you have said. It is just hard to hear what is happening here versus messages I receive all while trying to follow the guidance I was given last time.
 
@Enoch since I think you were the one asking (and for anybody else interested), got my replacement Stars copy and the same exact issue is in the same exact place (this time even worse). If I look closely enough, there seems to be a scratch in nearly the same place on both copies causing it to pop, so I'm guessing that it's a pressing issue sadly. I have asked for a refund.
that is my fear with my replacement
mine is probably coming very soon.. who knows it might even be here already... but if it turns out to be that bad.. its more proof we need to constantly info@ the company and show them this is a real problem.. dont just sit there and complain, get out there and tell them... i outright even said to VMP "i think this might be a pressing issue and needs to be fixed"

and if they dont fix it i am asking for a refund... hey it will be easier to pay for my subscription
 
mine is probably coming very soon.. who knows it might even be here already... but if it turns out to be that bad.. its more proof we need to constantly info@ the company and show them this is a real problem.. dont just sit there and complain, get out there and tell them... i outright even said to VMP "i think this might be a pressing issue and needs to be fixed"

and if they dont fix it i am asking for a refund... hey it will be easier to pay for my subscription
If my replacement copy is worse than the one I PIFed then I'm immediately asking for a refund
 
i used to think nothing of that skipping stuff until NOW i figured out it was a scratch... i just thought it was something some records did and it even sometimes sounded nice (even my exclusive OPN garden of delete had it).. knowing its an error now makes me realize how big a problem it is
 
As I’ve said before, we can’t prevent negativity. People are allowed to criticize VMP and people are allowed to praise VMP and people are allowed to not care at all and people are allowed to respond to public comments. I wish more people would ignore what they don’t like but that’s not the nature of the internet unfortunately.

People will be sarcastic and snarky. People will be more/less sensitive to this than others. People will express their anger. People can be comfortable/uncomfortable around anger. Arguments will happen between adults and I hope as adults we can have those arguments without needing someone else to step in because feelings got hurt or misunderstandings happened. As long as personal attacks don’t go full blown into namecalling or worse then we have to trust that adults can work it out. I truly believe we as adults can do this. Micromanaging conversations is not what we want to do. Giving excessive warnings or bans for stuff like this argument is not what we want to do.
 
mine is probably coming very soon.. who knows it might even be here already... but if it turns out to be that bad.. its more proof we need to constantly info@ the company and show them this is a real problem.. dont just sit there and complain, get out there and tell them... i outright even said to VMP "i think this might be a pressing issue and needs to be fixed"

and if they dont fix it i am asking for a refund... hey it will be easier to pay for my subscription
Mine is slightly worse than the last, but pretty comparable. FWIW, they were very fair to me first time--just asked for a video and immediately got back to me saying they were shipping out another copy and hoped it was better. I emailed them today saying that it looks like a pressing-wide issue because there is a small scratch on the grooves in almost exactly the same spot and asked for a refund. Will keep y'all posted on what they said. I will say, I have found overall (and not accusing anybody of anything at all) that just trying to be friendly and respectful with the VMP customer service folks has always resulted in them making things right. Maybe I have caught Pauly and the other folks at a good time in the day because I know there have been some suspect responses to people on here. I haven't had nearly as many issues as others though, so part of it could be that as well.

Hopefully they make it right again this time.
 
As I’ve said before, we can’t prevent negativity. People are allowed to criticize VMP and people are allowed to praise VMP and people are allowed to not care at all and people are allowed to respond to public comments. I wish more people would ignore what they don’t like but that’s not the nature of the internet unfortunately.

People will be sarcastic and snarky. People will be more/less sensitive to this than others. People will express their anger. People can be comfortable/uncomfortable around anger. Arguments will happen between adults and I hope as adults we can have those arguments without needing someone else to step in because feelings got hurt or misunderstandings happened. As long as personal attacks don’t go full blown into namecalling or worse then we have to trust that adults can work it out. I truly believe we as adults can do this. Micromanaging conversations is not what we want to do. Giving excessive warnings or bans for stuff like this argument is not what we want to do.
This not a response and you (staff) would not let this happen elsewhere. I am not accepting this non-answer again. Either let people talk about VMP without fear or not and say it. I will not let this go, so either go ahead and ban me or make a real statement.
 
It is my statement. I’m sorry you disagree. And I don’t appreciate ultimatums like this Enoch.
People are afraid to post and this is the response you find acceptable. I do not and will not stop until there is a statement so people can know what will be acceptable. If people are afraid to post then that is 100% a place staff needs to step in. I am losing respect more and more for staff regarding this issue. If this is a place where people are going to be afraid then I am not sure I want to be here and I have already been told by others they are going elsewhere. This is on staff to correct, you are becoming the monster you were trying to leave by not making a decision.
 
People are afraid to post and this is the response you find acceptable. I do not and will not stop until there is a statement so people can know what will be acceptable. If people are afraid to post then that is 100% a place staff needs to step in. I am losing respect more and more for staff regarding this issue. If this is a place where people are going to be afraid then I am not sure I want to be here and I have already been told by others they are going elsewhere. This is on staff to correct, you are becoming the monster you were trying to leave by not making a decision.
Enoch, This has to stop now. All staff is in agreement here. We cannot police every single little thing. It's on ALL of us to act as adults.
 
People are afraid to post and this is the response you find acceptable. I do not and will not stop until there is a statement so people can know what will be acceptable. If people are afraid to post then that is 100% a place staff needs to step in. I am losing respect more and more for staff regarding this issue. If this is a place where people are going to be afraid then I am not sure I want to be here and I have already been told by others they are going elsewhere. This is on staff to correct, you are becoming the monster you were trying to leave by not making a decision.
I think we made it pretty clear...
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Problem is, there's a lot of grey area that cannot be defined like you're asking for.
 
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