My buddy is dealing with it from his immediate supervisor in his reserve unit. My recommendation to him was that when he addressed it with her to ensure he gave her enough space for plausible deniability. I know you (and every other woman here) know exactly what I’m talking about. “I’m probably just blowing it out of proportion, but these things are making me uncomfortable. Could we ensure our interactions are more professional from here on out?”
That's a good way to put it. I hope she's receptive to it.
If they're in the military they should also consult with someone outside of their CoC to, at the very least, make it a known issue. They could clearly state is as their perception of events and that they want the opportunity to address it "in-house". But to get someone aware of the situation in case it goes sideways with the supervisor would be smart to avoid possible retribution. You did say harassment and not assault - still, I would suggest they talk to a person who can take a restricted report and would not be obligated to escalate it and take your friend's control of the situation away from them.
That’s not a bad idea, but it’s not likely to be necessary. He is in the reserves and will be leaving that unit shortly. He actually approached her in the timeframe between the last post an now and appears she was receptive to the message.
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Sorry you have to go through that... Its gotta be the worst situation especially at workplace where you have to see the other person every day. I had a friend / coworker go through the same thing with another colleague. I didn't love our boss at that time but I did respect him more after I heard that he had a talk with the other colleague and eventually had him transferred to a different department - especially when it was revealed that several others said they were uncomfortable with his actions.
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The school I worked at got this email in 2018:Jared Bell of ‘Drake and Josh’ had inappropriate chats with teen, is now charged with multiple crimes: Prosecutor
CUYAHOGA COUNTY, Ohio (WJW) – Jared Drake Bell who played Drake in the hit Nickelodeon TV show “Drake and Josh” is facing charges in Cuyahoga County. According to the Cuyahoga County ProsecutorR…
A 32 year old man (at the time) playing Proms and Spring Flings....The school I worked at got this email in 2018:
His show was on tv in the mid-2000s. At one point does that target audience of high school kids have no recollection of watching that show? I would think modern high schoolers have no idea so him playing those gigs is more of a creep move than them actually being his fans.
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I read the lead-in, a good comeback story is only invigorating if you’re rooting for the guy involved. It’s sad what he’s going through but this isn’t like coming back from addiction or something greater than oneself, but rather coming back from decades of unchecked toxic behavior.Interesting follow-up article with Ryan Adams after his cancelling and trying to cobble back a career. It's not going well.
Exclusive: Ryan Adams: 'I Felt Like They Were Asking Me to Die'
Two years after a series of #MeToo allegations turned him into a pariah, the struggling singer is finally breaking his silence. But does anyone want to hear what he has to say?
