I kept trying to find jobs in my field, whether full-time employment or freelance. Full time jobs were far and few between and most wanted 5+ years of experience or 10+ years of experience. I applied for them anyways because I could do everything the job required. But I simply was not getting the interviews. And a few people called back to let me know they decided to move on with other candidates. I didn't have enough job experience. A lot of the freelance work being posted on Craigs List was unpaid. "Great experience for you resume!". There were also lots of unpaid internships being posted on the job board on Craigs list.
Meanwhile, why working 3 part time jobs and 60+ hours a week at all odd hours was putting to much stress on my body. I started getting panic attacks out of the blue left and right for the first time in my life. My mother gets them so I inherited it from her.
I ended up taking a management position at one of the retail stores I was working at for 33K a year and benefits. I was still living paycheck to paycheck, but at least I had one job now and more free time on my hands to try to find a job I wanted.
At this time there was a rise in those bidding sites for jobs. I tried to take as much freelance work as I could. But I was finding that unless I bidded competitively with the rates those people on those sites from India and Pakistan there was a 95% chance I would not get that gig. So, that meant that nearly 100% of the jobs I landed equated to about $1 an hour for the work I did. Really it only helped me build my resume and grow experience.
After 3 years I finally found a job at a start up. And advertising agency was testing a concept of a retail agency space where people can walk in and buy a website, or business cards, a logo or come in and have what ever they needed printed. Business was close to non-existent and it wasn't long before I was laid off.
At this point in time I was laid of 15 months before I found full time employment again. I was taking what ever temp agency work I could get or freelance job I could find. So it was like one day of work here and there. And of course, since I used all of my deferment and forbearance on my student loans already it was tough luck with the lenders. They would not work with me at all and my student loans defaulted.
Only 5 or so places I applied I ever heard back from. Travelled to lots of places for interviews during this time. As far as MD or IL. I was applying for everything and everywhere. If finding employment meant relocating, I was open for it. I moved back in with my parents during this time, and spend on my money that I did earned traveling to interviews.
The story I heard was pretty much all the same. I didn't have enough experience. And all the entry level jobs were designed for college graduates within their first year of graduation. There was a earned tax credit for businesses hiring college graduates within the first year of graduation. This basically made them totally uninterested in hiring me because they would not get that tax credit. I was flat at told I was not qualified for this position because I have been out of school for more than a year.
I ended up finding a temp agency in Boston that specializes in creatives and developers. I got my foot in the door at a few places, only to learn that they couldn't hiring me for a year because of the finders fee they would have to pay the temp agency. Most of the temp jobs were a week or two. Some were for a day. A lot of the day ones the client declined on me because they said I would be unreliable as I have to commuting into Boston from Western Massachussets. Traffic is bad.
I finally found a temp job that lasted 3 months, and turned into full time employment. I was hired at 46k a year. I no longer wanted to make the drive into Boston from Western Mass / My parents house, who wanted me to get back out on my own by then of course. So I looked for apartments closer to Boston. I found that anything around Boston was unaffordable. I ended up finding an apartment in Salem that was a nice place and one of the cheapest rents I have yet to find within 90 minutes commute to Boston.
I had to cash in my 401k to make first months, last months and security deposit. I also used that money to bring my student loans up to current. My first year and a half was rough. Rent was 70% of my take home pay or like 44% of my income. And as we all know the financially responsible rent amount is 30% of your income max:
Rule of thumb: Spend a fixed percentage of your income on housing. The general recommendation is to spend about 30% of your gross monthly income (before taxes) on rent. Therefore, if you'll be making $4,000 per month, then your rent should be $4,000 x 0.3, or about $1,200.
In the Boston and the immediate surrounding communities, studio apartments started at $4300. For the last 15 years or so the trend has only been to build luxury apartment complex. The rend I found in Salem was $1640 a month for a 1 bedroom apartment. One of the very few places I found for less than 2k.
Because the cost of living was so high, and I was attempting to pay off my student loans I ended up charging a lot necessities and utilities. I built up a massive amount of credit card debit in 2 years when I finally got a raise. Which was completely offset by making my minimums for my credit cards. I ended up falling behind on my student loans again.
I now make 65k a year. And I'm having to take as much freelance jobs as I can get to fund paying student loans and my record addiction as well as trying to pay down debt, which feels like I'm getting nowhere. I can't get by on just my one salary of 65k.
I graduated college with 55k in student loan debit. Todays payoff value is 80k. 25k higher than when I graduated. If by just paying the minimum payments, I will be paying more than 200k over the life of the loan.
My rent goes up by about $100 each year when I renew my lease. But so does every other place. Each year I look and see if I can find a cheaper place and I never can.
My rent is double what my parents mortgage is, and their mortgage is split between 2 people.
I can't afford to buy a house, nor could I ever get approved. I would need a co-signer because of my student loan debt. At this point in time in my life, I don't ever see myself as being able to afford a home. It truly is a pipe dream.
Granted my experience has been rougher than most as I'm single. I just don't get out enough to meet people. I'm a little bit on the introverted side and I rarely if ever go out because I simply can't afford it on my budget. So it's like where / how can I meet someone. So my cost of living has never ben split with a significant other.
Also, some other trends I noticed. Back when I was in college being a web developer looked like an easy path to a 6 figure job. It's not anymore. The recession hit. Off shoring happened.
I know for a fact there is no career path where I work to become a senior level developer or make six figures. Why? Our clients say we are too expensive constantly. To stay competitive we would want to have 3 jr's making 40k a year instead of a senior making 6 figures and pump out more work. I have seen most of the seniors laid off since starting.
Also the job is evolving. We are finding ourselves more and more in consultant rules and overseeing projects being offshored. For many of our clients, we are no longer an authorized dev place because we are "too expensive". We have to work with their dev partners overseas and it's so frustrating having to hold their hands and walk them through how to build what we want.
In 2008 clients would pay huge salaries for flash developers. Today a lot of clients don't see much value in paying more than minimum wage / 15 an hour for development. That 120k job with 5+ years experience does not exist. Only full stack web developers with 20+ years experience who make a city salary, such as NYC or Boston get that much.