If we didn't have media mail it would be terrible here too. We're spoiled by that option. Even that is getting up there, but it's still relatively reasonable all things considered.
I think about shipping too much, lol. It fluctuates annually between who's good and who's terrible, but UPS has been the only reliable shipper this last year who doesn't beat the hell out of everything or lose/deliver to the wrong address all the damn time. Plus my UPS guy is a chill old dude with a huge mustache and he's always very gentle with my records. I caught the FedEx guy literally throwing one like a frisbee from 20 feet away. And the postal service just can't keep anyone employed in our route. Every couple months it's someone new. Can't blame them with how frickin' hot and humid it is, no AC in their vehicles, and a bunch of assholes yelling at them all the time. People at the post office here are rude as hell to the workers.