From my perspective, you can actually be one most negative people on this forum, while, most likely, viewing yourself as the exact opposite. Perspective is relative. I've felt it for a long time and I'm going to say it whether it gets backlash or not, because this is tiring.
When they eliminated the old place, you pretty much blamed the very people who gave you a new community, rather than the company who attempted to set the building on fire with everyone still in it. During the whole process of them basically telling us to go fuck ourselves, you defended them, while simultaneously criticizing members, as if it was our faults. The one amazing thing about the way that went down was that it united the majority of us together, because, for most of us, there was finally no more denying VMP's actions. There was no more benefit of the doubt. And believe me, we have ALL given it to them at one point or another. So, when Needles & Grooves started, the whole fact that it was manifested by us being united was like a miracle. It was a positive thing. It was lemonade. Almost everyone came over here happy. Positive. Every comment that I saw was optimistic and happy. We felt good about ourselves. I read comments about how great this place felt and how much lighter it all was here. Even the color scheme felt less like we were trapped in a dungeon. I have a lot of love for the folks who put this platform together without "more time" to transition. It was beautiful.
THE ONLY negative comments that I saw were from you and that's why they stood out and stuck with me. Your first status update was about how you hoped that everyone wasn't going to be negative over here. Your first post on the introduction thread was also about how you miss the old place and hoped everyone wasn't going to be negative, like they've been. You floated around like a dark cloud with that shit, accusing everyone else who was whistling while they rebuilt the place as being the ones who brought that here. VMP got rid of the forum! They moved to reddit and now a completely different batch of people are pissed over there, who were actually defending them and attacking forum members when they first got there. They've caught on now that it's happening to them. Stop victim blaming people. You've said a lot of shit that just feels like you're yelling at your mom, because your dad left. "YOU DROVE HIM AWAY!!!!" If you're happy, then be happy, but stop trying to stifle and suffocate the feelings of others who deserve to be validated. Don't respond to it if you don't agree, but people have a right to express their frustrations. The old forum was eliminated, because they didn't want people to speak out or validate each other. I'm pretty sure that this place is "supposed to" offer something different than that.