I will agree that, while her story was somewhat presented in a way to imply that it was posted for immediate friends, she did make the point to claim that VMP is "trying to eliminate any and all obstacles that might be in YOUR way of experiencing music on a deeper level" and that the migration is "yet another way they are showing they want to improve YOUR experience." It's a tired angle.
It's the "YOUR" bit that rubbed me the wrong way. That's what I rolled my eyes at, because it's definitely not just a post about how it's been a stressful time for their family. It's a really condescending post claiming that her husband and his company are providing a noble service to help the idiots who subscribe understand and experience some form of culture that we couldn't grasp otherwise, and that we simply aren't appreciative of all that they're doing for us by fucking everything up. She also claims that this post is the alternative to her responding to EVERY NEGATIVE COMMENT, so it was -- at least, partially -- directed at us dummies.
That being said, it's pretty much what I'd expect from someone's spouse. My son is 8 now, but the first 2 months of his life was one of the most important time periods in my life. My focus was on nothing else. It's fucked up that he set fire to his company during this time in their own life, and the fact that he has had to deal with that is 100% his own fault. Still, even if she IS wrong or misguided about her take, I'd just let her be ignorant about it. Again, that's just how I'm looking at it. I don't feel like your message is going to be taken positively or will result in anything constructive. But, we're all adults here and make our own decisions.