I doubt that anyone in her life would have advised that posting this was a Good Idea, but as
@Dead C says, I wouldn’t expect any different sentiment from any one of our spouses/partners in a similar situation. I have no doubt that some angry people have probably crossed some lines in their emails to CS, DMs on socials, etc., on top of what I’m sure is an objectively stressful period for these people. A problem of their own design, sure, but I can’t knock a spouse for wanting to believe the best in her partner and support the mission that puts bread on their table, as well as feeling some protective instincts against what must feel, from her POV, like the barbarians at the gate. The only reason any of us saw this message is because we sought it out. She’s a non-actor in this drama, and although it’s certainly eye roll-worthy in some respects from where we sit, I don’t personally feel like it’s totally in bounds for our forum to put her on blast.