Day 6: Funeral
Play an album that contains a track you'd like to have played at your funeral.
The Notwist - Neon Golden
View attachment 221140
This one is surprisingly hard, because I just realized I've never thought about it. I was raised Mormon, and funerals are mostly somber affairs that are a lot like normal Sunday meetings- hymns and a few talks, with some food after. One of the deceased's favorite hymns might be a special musical number. I'm going to pick the track "Consequence" off this album.
(In the same vein, my wife and I don't have a song from our wedding because the whole dancing together thing just isn't part of how Mormon weddings tend to go.)
Can confirm. That’s something the Irish and Italians kept with them even when they immigrated to the US.Oh man are Mormons the opposite to us Irish Catholics. Funerals, particularly the bit after the mass and the burial are, unless it’s a tragedy, are big parties where the person is remembered and people celebrate their life.
Weddings are weekend long sessions…
Can confirm. That’s something the Irish and Italians kept with them even when they immigrated to the US.
Okay now onto day 3, to wake me up this morning, I am listening to Asobi Seksu-Citrus. View attachment 221154
Having been at a half Irish/Scottish and half wedding in Sardinia just there I can also confirm that the the Italians were absolutely not prepared for the volume of alcohol consumed
They had a laugh though and the two wedding traditions did seem to mix ok!
The lack of alcohol (big no-no to Mormons) is part of it, but also the funeral service is almost always held in the church chapel, where non-church music or instruments like guitars are generally not allowed. Plus, since death is supposed to not be a big deal because it's all temporary until we see each other on the other side, nobody is supposed to be super sad, either. So just kinda stuck in the middle, not too sad and not too happy, with the focus as much on talking about the gospel as talking about the deceased.