I’m fine other than existential guilt for bringing my two wonderful girls into… *** points around indiscriminately ***
My son turns 3 in a month so I get it. Like I think I mentioned in a previous post the other day, it has been hard to stay afloat since 2022. Last year property taxes went up so bad I am now paying 200$ a month extra on my mortgage, coupled with daycare hikes, the skyrocketing of everyday essentials for a 2 going on 3 year old....including diapers (which we are 95% done with as of last week thank god), made it the worst year for my wife and I in the 8 years we've been together. No this is not a "we cant afford to buy a house now so we are mad at the economy situation" This is a we both work full time, (plus I just got made operations manager of my law firm i've been at for 8 years recently), just to barely get by. Yes I dont get paid as much as I should because as an OM. I am aware. I started with the firm when they opened with 12 employees....we just hit a growth phase so I am hopeful for next years review. but I am handcuffed by debt to make a big change. Handcuffed by interest rates for a CC I had to get to replace my AC unit March 2023.
I have all but stopped buying records. I get one a month now as a personal treat and IT IS NOT a $$$$$ Mach-Hommy vinyl lol. Reality is I have been selling some of my Hip Hop grails on discord to take care of unexpected shit.
The only saving grace was that we bought the house in 2017 when everything in that sector was at the bottom so the cost of the home was lower, but with the mortage increase it has caught up tenfold.
I am not saying that's why I voted his way, because I didn't but that is why I understand why people are upset with shit that is not Gaza, Ukraine, and other things that may not affect their month to month, because that is the hard reality for alot of folks.
And no, before more shots are thrown that I'm "upset cuz eggs and milk went up .50" or whatever the rhetoric was last night, thats isnt the case. I am also full of guilt because my wife and I had a long hard think about the future here before deciding to have a child. We got to a point that we were saying to each other we feel more guilty by being married with no kids for the rest of time. I hear ya man!
I love everyone here. I also enjoy debating issues. I sincerely apologize if I have posted anything that you found belittling.
Everyone on here has at least a 6th grade education and we are all definitely morons.
All good TLK i've never had an issue with you here. I am too one for a good debate and LMAO to the last part