Why are some opposed to abortion? Honestly. Why?
Why does gun control frighten some?
Why is immigration bad?
Abortion is easily compared to murder. Co-opting any form of murder is a pretty heinous idea. (personally, I think we need government regulated abortion clinics because it is a health issue not a moral issue, similarly, I support assisted suicide)
Gun control is a prerequisite step to tyrannical dictatorships. In all historical examples the populace was first disarmed. Gun control and disarmament are not the same thing but slippery slopes are a thing to be feared.
Then there's that Bill of Rights thing that essentially says it is not up for discussion. If we open the door on something as clear cut as that then the entire thing comes up for revision.
Gun violence is bad, really bad, but guns aren't actually the issue, in my opinion. There are much deeper issues driving the violence; guns just happen to be very convenient to that end.
Furthermore, there's perfectly good use for firearms in areas that are not very populated at all. Yet, I never hear policy that respects this fact.
Also, guns are an excellent equalizer which is an argument I would think more women would lean into. Guns actually are a pretty good crime deterrent in this way. What the policy seeks to remove it never appears to offer an acceptable replacement. Thus, I can empathize with a great deal of fear in this particular issue. Current proposed gun control policies have no appearance of actually addressing the issues in a useful way and historically they never have.
Immigration... well, now, I think there's some obvious fears of cultural dilution but I don't see how this country has a leg to stand on. I do think it's hypocritical that there are plenty of country's with tighter restrictions than we have that are not demonized for having them. The fact is, immigration is real and there are mechanisms to enable it. Personally, I would not be opposed to erasing borders entirely but that would break down existing power structures in such a way it will never, ever be allowed. And there, really, is the issue isn't it? It's not about racist rednecks at all. The current situation with the deportations and child abuse is repugnant, heinous, and in my opinion, should be treated similarly to war crimes.