Sonicpharmacist
Well-Known Member
I was literally talking to a coworker about this very issue not but 10 minutes ago. Do you stay and fight the good fight? Or do you move to somewhere your ideals align a bit better? Obviously nowhere is perfect and most of the more progressive places (in the states at least) are prohibitively expensive. You need to have a lot of faith in your skills as a parent to mitigate and combat the damage the echo chamber your children will face every day, surrounded by kids indoctrinated by their parents. It's a lot to have to think about.
I happen to be a Canadian citizen, so I can't even vote if I wanted to. But my wife and I have been entertaining the idea of moving to Canada. It's just jobs and her immigration that hold us back.
My boys are 16 and almost 13, and so far I think we've done a good job letting them find their own belief system while instilling in them foundation of compassion and acceptance. My older boy just went with his girlfriend to the local all-inclusive "prom" put on by our LGBTQ center, and my younger son's best friend is Black who encounters bullying and racism from some of his White classmates, which always upsets my son. I'm pretty sure they're on the correct path.Kids are so innocent though.
My 6yo was learning about the civil rights movement during black history month and was told about segregation of blacks and whites in schools. She was retelling what she learned and was really thinking through it. She said, mom it's really said that back then I couldn't be friends with Dior (her black friend). And then her eyes lit up and she seemed excited and said, but at least I could still be friends with Aspen (her white friend)...
Her heart was there but I think she missed the point.